R.E.M. was thus formed in
1980. By the early 1990s they had become one of the most acclaimed bands in the world.
Berry was more than simply R.E.M.'s drummer. He regularly contributed elements such as guitar, bass, vocals, keyboards, and piano on studio tracks. In concert he occasionally performed on bass, and supplied regular backing vocals. Berry also made notable songwriting contributions, the best-known of which is writing most of their intense ballad "
Everybody Hurts", as well as their hit "
Man on the Moon". Other Berry songs included "Perfect Circle", "
Driver 8", and "
Find the River". Fittingly, the song "Leave" from R.E.M.'s 1996 album
New Adventures in Hi-Fi was also written by Berry, which was his last album with the band.
During 1984 Berry also was drummer for the impromptu
Hindu Love Gods, which featured his R.E.M. bandmates Mike Mills and Peter Buck and rocker
Warren Zevon.
Berry married his girlfriend of two years, Mari, on March 22, 1986. They divorced eleven years later.
In
1995, in the
Swiss town of
Lausanne, Berry collapsed on stage during an R.E.M. show, due to a
brain aneurysm. He recovered and rejoined the band, but left in October 1997, saying that he no longer had the drive or enjoyment level to be in the band, and that he wanted a career change. In an
MTV interview, he explained: “I didn’t wake up one day and decide, ‘I just can’t stand these guys anymore’ or anything. I feel like I’m ready for a life change. I’m still young enough that I can do something else. I’ve been pounding the tubs since I was nine years old ... I’m ready to do something else. I’m at a point in my life where some of my priorities have shifted. I loved my seventeen years with R.E.M., but I’m ready to reflect, assess, and move on to a different phase of my life. The four of us will continue our close friendship, and I look forward to hearing their future efforts as the world’s biggest R.E.M. fan.”
Acquiescing to Berry's wishes, and relieving him from the guilt of triggering a breakup, R.E.M. announced that it would continue as a three-piece outfit.