As a student at the University of Nebraska in the early 1890s, Cather sometimes used the masculine nickname "William" and wore masculine clothes. <Ref>O'Brien, Sharon. Willa Cather: The Emerging Voice. New York: Oxford, 1987. pp. 96-113.</ref> A photograph in the University of Nebraska archives depicts Cather, "her hair shingled, at a time when long hair was fashionable, and dressed boyishly."
Throughout Cather's adult life, her most significant relationships were with women, such as her college friend
Louise Pound, the Pittsburgh socialite
Isabelle McClung, with whom Cather traveled to Europe, and most notably the editor
Edith Lewis. Cather's friendship with Lewis began in the early 1900s; the two women lived together in a series of apartments in New York City from 1912 until the writer's death in 1947, Lewis afterwards serving as the literary trustee for the Cather estate.
Cather is buried in
Jaffrey, New Hampshire.
A resolutely private person, Cather destroyed many old drafts, personal papers, and letters. Her will restricted the ability of scholars to quote from those personal papers that remain. Since the 1980s, feminist and other academic writers have written about Cather's sexual orientation and the influence of her female friendships on her work.
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* In 1981 the US Mint created the Willa Cather Medallion. A half-ounce gold coin. Many have been melted down by collectors for the gold.
* From 1913 to 1927, she lived at No. 5 Bank Street in
Greenwich Village, until the apartment was torn down during the construction of the Seventh Avenue subway line.
* After reading her cousin
G.P. Cather's wartime letters home to his mother, wrote the Pulitzer Prize-winning "
One of Ours". He was Nebraska's first officer killed in
World War I. Those same letters are now held in the George Cather Ray Collection at the
University of Nebraska-Lincoln Libraries.
* Cather and Pound residence halls at the University of Nebraska (Lincoln) are named after Willa Cather and Louise Pound.
http://housing.unl.edu/halls/cather.shtml