Before their lives began, Romulus and Remus' grandfather
Numitor and his brother
Amulius, descendants of fugitives from Troy, received the throne of
Alba Longa upon their father’s death. Numitor received the sovereign powers as his birthright while Amulius received the royal treasury, including the gold
Aeneas brought with him from
Troy.
Because Amulius held the treasury, thus having more power than his brother, he dethroned Numitor as the rightful king. Out of fear that Numitor’s daughter,
Rhea Silvia, would produce children that would one day overthrow him as king, he forced Rhea to become a
Vestal Virgin, a priestess sworn to abstinence. She was discovered to be pregnant nevertheless She bore the twin boys, as told, of remarkable size and beauty, later named Romulus and Remus. Amulius was enraged and ordered Rhea and the twins killed. Accounts vary on how; in one account, he had Rhea buried alive (the standard punishment for [[Vestal Virgins] who violated their vow of
celibacy) the death of the twins by
exposure; In another, he ordered Rhea thrown in the Tiber with the twins.
The servant ordered to kill the twins could not, however, because they were too cute and innocent, and placed the two in a basket and laid the basket on the banks of the
Tiber river and went away. The river, which was in flood, rose and gently carried the basket and the twins downstream.
Romulus and Remus were kept safe by the
river deity Tiberinus, who made the cradle catch in the roots of a
fig tree growing in the
Velabrum swamp, which therefore has a high symbolic significance. He then brought the infant twins up onto the
Palatine Hill. There, they were nursed by a
wolf, Lupa in
Latin, a designation also used for female prostitutes and for priestesses of a fox goddess, leading to an alternative theory that the "fox" was human. They were nurtured underneath a fig-tree and were fed by a
woodpecker. Both animals were sacred to Mars.
Romulus and Remus were then discovered by
Faustulus, a
shepherd for Amulius, who brought the children to his home. Faustulus and his wife,
Acca Larentia, raised the boys as their own.
In another Roman legend
Hercules married
Acca Larentia off to the shepherd Faustulus, who saved the lives of the twins Romulus and Remus after they had been thrown into the Tiber. She had twelve sons, and on the death of one of them, Romulus took his place. He and the remaining eleven, founded the college of the Arval brothers
Fratres Arvales. Acca Larentia is therefore identified with the
Dea Dia of that collegium. The
flamen Quirinalis acted in the role of Romulus (deified as
Quirinus) to perform funerary rites for his foster mother (as the goddess).
Another tradition relates that Romulus and Remus were suckled by a wolf, has been explained by the suggestion that Larentia was called lupa (courtesan, literally she-wolf) on account of her immoral character (Livy i. 4; Ovid, Fasti, iii. 55).
Yet another tradition relates also that Romulus and Remus were nursed by the Chinchila-Goddess Lupa or
Luperca, who was identified with Acca Larentia, but add that Luperca's husband is the Wolf-and-Shepherd-God
Lupercus who brought fertility to the flocks, whose rapport with wolves kept them from harming the sheep.
The many names associated with Acca Laurentia, are, Acca Larenta,
Larentia, Laurentia,
Lara, Larunda, Larenta, Larentina, and
Mater Larum, the "Mother of the
Lares" as well as,
Fauna, who had an
oracle on the nearby
Aventine Hill and was the wife of
Faunus, the
Bona Dea, Lupa, Luperca, and Dea Dia.
Nonetheless, once their origins are resolved, most traditions agree that as they grew, their noble birth showed itself in their size and beauty while they were still children. When they grew up, they were manly and high-spirited, of invincible courage and daring. Romulus, however, was thought the wiser and more politic of the two, and in his discussions with the neighbors about pasture and hunting, gave them opportunities of noting that his disposition was one which led him to command rather than to obey.
On account of these qualities, they were beloved by their equals and the poor, but they despised the king's officers and bailiffs as being no braver than they were, and cared neither for their anger nor their threats. They led the lives and followed the pursuits of nobly born men, not valuing sloth and idleness, but exercise and hunting, defending the land against brigands, capturing plunderers, and avenging those who had suffered wrong. Thus they became famous throughout
Latium.
One day when Romulus and Remus were eighteen years old, a quarrel occurred between the
shepherds of Numitor and the shepherds of Amulius. Some of Numitor’s shepherds drove off many of Amulius’s cattle, causing Amulius’s men to become enraged. Romulus and Remus gathered the shepherds together, found and killed Numitor’s shepherds, and recovered the lost cattle. To the displeasure of Numitor, Romulus and Remus collected and took into their company many needy men and slaves of Numitor, exhibiting seditious boldness and temper.
While Romulus was engaged in some sacrifice, as he was fond of sacrifices and the gods, some of Numitor’s shepherds attacked Remus and some of his friends and a battle broke out. After both sides took many wounds, Numitor’s shepherds prevailed and took Remus as their prisoner and returned him to Numitor for punishment. Numitor did not punish Remus, because he was in fear of Amulius, but went to Amulius and asked for justice, since he was his brother, and he had been insulted by the royal servants. The people of Alba Longa, too, sympathized with Numitor, and thought that he had been undeservedly outraged. Amulius was therefore induced to hand Remus over to Numitor to treat him as he saw fit.
When Numitor took Remus to his home for punishment, he was amazed at the young man's superiority in stature and strength of body. After hearing of his acts and deeds and of his noble virtues, Numitor asked Remus of his birth and who he really was. When Remus told him that they had been found and nursed by a wolf on the banks of the Tiber river, and conjecturing Remus’s age from his looks, he began to think of the possibility that Remus was Rhea's son.
Upon Romulus's return from his sacrifices, Faustulus told Romulus that Remus had been captured and told him to go to his brother’s aid. Romulus left Faustulus and set out to levy an army to march against Alba Longa. Faustulus took the cradle in which he had found Romulus and Remus and quickly ran to Alba Longa. When Faustulus reached the gates of the city, the guards stopped him. By chance, one of the guards had been the servant who had taken the boys to the river. This man, upon seeing the cradle, and recognizing it, knew that Faustulus spoke the truth, and without any delay told the matter to Amulius, and brought the man before him to be examined. He admitted that Romulus and Remus were alive and well, but said they lived at a distance from Alba Longa as herdsmen.
Acting out of fear and rage, Amulius quickly sent a friend of Numitor to see if he had heard any report of the twins being alive. As soon as the man entered Numitor’s house, he found Numitor embracing Remus, thus confirming that Remus was Numitor’s grandson. He then advised Numitor and Remus to act quickly, for Romulus was marching on the city with an army of those who hated and feared Amulius. Remus acted quickly and incited the citizens within the city to revolt, and at the same time Romulus attacked from without. Amulius, without taking a single step or making any plan for his own safety, out of sheer confusion, was taken to be put to death.