Even early on, Alice Keppel had a reputation for adultery, and it was rumoured that her eldest daughter was not fathered by her husband George, but in fact was the daughter of the future
Lord Grimthorpe, one of her lovers. Pretty, articulate, and discreet, Keppel quickly climbed the society ladder through affairs with prominent men of the day. Known as a very attractive woman, her extra-marital affairs were usually initiated by her desire to gain a better
social status. She became so successful as a
courtesan that it has eclipsed any accomplishments of her husband George. Most of her affairs were with his full knowledge, and Edward VII even visited her house on a regular basis, her husband conveniently leaving during the visits.
Although it might sound unusual by today's standards, extramarital affairs were quite common and even accepted in wealthy circles of that time. It was not unusual for both the husband and the wife to take a lover, or lovers, as long as they were semi-discreet in their encounters. It was (if not acceptable) common for well-to-do women of the time to act as courtesans for the benefit of their husband's career, or their own social status.
In 1898, Keppel met the future Edward VII, then the 56-year old heir to the throne. It was not long before Keppel became one of Edward's many mistresses, despite a twenty-eight year age difference. Their relationship would last until Edward's death in 1910.
Edward took other mistresses, such as actresses
Lillie Langtry and
Sarah Bernhardt, and socialites
Jennie Jerome (mother of
Winston Churchill) and
Daisy Greville, Countess of Warwick (Frances Brooke). His last two mistresses, contemporary with one another and both beginning between 1898 and 1900, were Alice Keppel and a wealthy daughter of a
Stock Exchange member,
Agnes Keyser. Keyser was the more acceptable of the two in royal circles, due to her discretion and respect for the monarchy, but mostly due to the fact that she herself was not married. A humanitarian, Keyser's charity to found a hospital for military officers in partnership with her sister was supported by Edward VII .
However, it was Keppel who was more well-known. "Alice Keppel was a fantastic help to Edward VII, more help than his wife Queen Alexandra could have ever have been", wrote Christopher Wilson, who has done extensive writings on Keppel's great-granddaughter,
Camilla Parker Bowles. Keppel was one of the few people in his circle who was able to defuse Edward VII's cantankerous mood swings.
Aristocratic and royal approval of Keppel was mixed. Edward's wife
Alexandra of Denmark was on good enough terms with Keppel to send her a consoling letter when her husband was stricken by
typhoid, and to permit her at Edward's side when the King was on his deathbed. However, she reportedly merely tolerated Keppel, and did not like her. Alexandra, on the contrary, thoroughly did enjoy the company of Edward's former mistress Jennie Jerome, finding her pleasant and appealing. She also was said to be quite fond of Agnes Keyser, with whom Edward was involved until his death. However she resented Keppel who, although somewhat discreet, would still show up at functions to which Alexandra was accompanying Edward VII, which irritated the queen.
High-ranking aristocrats such as the
Duke of Norfolk, the
Duke of Portland, and the
Marquess of Salisbury were decidedly cool towards the King's mistress.