Ono first met
John Lennon when he visited a preview of an exhibition of Ono's at the
Indica Gallery in
London on
November 9, 1966. Lennon's first personal encounter with Ono involved her passing him a card that read simply "Breathe". He was taken with the positivity, humour, and
interactivity of her work, such as a
ladder leading up to a black canvas with a
spyglass on a chain allowing John to read the word "Yes" written on the canvas along with a real apple displayed with a card reading "APPLE." When John was told the price of the apple was 200 pounds, he thought, "This is a joke, this is pretty funny". Another display was a white board with nails in it with a sign inviting visitors to hammer a nail into its surface. Since the show was not beginning until the following day, Ono refused to allow Lennon to hammer in a nail. The gallery owner whisked her away, saying, "Don't you know who that is? He's a millionaire!" (Ono later claimed not to know who John Lennon or the
Beatles were, though some friends remember her being quite interested in the band and wanting to get involved with them). Upon returning to John, she said he could hammer in a nail for five
shillings. Lennon replied, "I'll give you an imaginary five shillings if you let me hammer in an imaginary nail".
They began an
affair approximately two years later, eventually resulting in Lennon divorcing his first wife,
Cynthia Lennon.
Lennon referred to Ono in many of his songs. While still a Beatle he wrote "
The Ballad of John and Yoko", and he alluded to her indirectly in "
Julia", a song dedicated to his mother, with the lyrics: "Ocean child calls me, so I sing a song of love" (The
kanji 洋子 ("Yoko") means "ocean child"). Other Lennon songs about Ono are said to include: "
I Want You (She's So Heavy)", "
Don't Let Me Down", "
Happiness Is a Warm Gun", "Well Well Well", "Oh Yoko!", "I'm Losing You", "Bless You", and "Dear Yoko".
Ono and Lennon collaborated on many albums, beginning in 1968 when Lennon was still a Beatle, with
Unfinished Music No.1: Two Virgins, an album of experimental and difficult
electronic music. That same year, the couple contributed an experimental piece to
The White Album called "
Revolution 9". Ono also contributed backing vocals (on "
Birthday"), and one line of lead vocals (on "
The Continuing Story of Bungalow Bill") to
The White Album. Many of the couple's later albums were released under the name the
Plastic Ono Band. The couple also appeared together at concerts; when Lennon was invited to play with
Frank Zappa at the Fillmore on
June 5, 1971, Ono joined in as well.
In 1969, the Plastic Ono Band's first album,
Live Peace in Toronto 1969, was recorded during the Toronto Rock and Roll Revival Festival. In addition to Lennon and Ono, this first incarnation of the group consisted of guitarist
Eric Clapton, bass player
Klaus Voorman, and drummer
Alan White. The first half of their performance consisted of rock standards, and during the second half, Ono took the microphone and along with the band performed what may be one of the first expressions of the
avant garde during a rock concert. The set ended with music that consisted mainly of
feedback, while Ono screamed
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Ono and Lennon married on
March 20, 1969 in
Gibraltar.
Ono released her first solo album,
Yoko Ono/Plastic Ono Band in 1970, as a companion piece to Lennon's better-known
John Lennon/Plastic Ono Band. The two albums have almost identical covers: Ono's featured a photo of her leaning on Lennon, and Lennon's had a photo of him leaning on Ono. Her album included raw and quite harsh vocals that were possibly influenced by Japanese
opera, but bear much in common with sounds in nature (especially those made by animals) and free jazz techniques used by wind and brass players. The performers included
Ornette Coleman and other renowned
free jazz performers. The personnel was supplemented by John Lennon,
Ringo Starr and minor performers. Some songs consisted of wordless vocalizations, in a style that would influence
Meredith Monk, and other musical artists who have used screams and vocal noise in lieu of words. Perhaps, the most famous song on
Yoko Ono/Plastic Ono Band is "Why", which features Ono repeating the word "Why" (in a manner reminiscent of John Gilmore's sax playing) for five minutes, as the band improvises with textural form and tempo over one chord. This structure calls attention to the timbral and orchestrational aspects of the music, a technique common to free jazz. Some punk bands, including
Public Image Ltd consider this album (and her other early albums) as laying the foundation for punk. The album peaked at #183 on the US charts.
In 1971, Ono released
Fly - a double album. On this release Ono explored slightly more conventional
psychedelic rock with tracks like "Midsummer New York" and "Mind Train", in addition to a number of Fluxus experiments. She also received minor airplay with the
ballad "Mrs. Lennon". Perhaps the most famous track from the album is "Don't Worry, Kyoko (Mummy's Only Looking For Her Hand In The Snow)", an ode to Ono's kidnapped daughter. Ono later released two
feminist rock albums in 1973,
Approximately Infinite Universe and
Feeling the Space, which received little attention at the time but are today recognized with much critical respect, particularly for tracks such as "Move on Fast", "
Yang Yang" and "Death of Samantha."
Ono has been accused by some music historians, of
breaking up The Beatles, while others argue that the breakup was caused by the fact that the Beatles were moving in different directions musically and personally. Lennon, also, said he had wanted to leave the group even before he met Yoko. In a 2003 interview with
Jay Leno, Yoko revealed the disappointment she felt by the breakup and the impact it had on a life that she was used to. Beatles historian
Bob Spitz concluded that John Lennon wanted to disband the Beatles and saw in Yoko the perfect wedge to drive between himself and the others.
After the Beatles disbanded, Lennon and Ono cohabitated in London and then in New York. They were arrested for possession of cannabis resin on
October 18, 1968. The arrest would be significant to their future together. Their relationship was very strained as Lennon faced near-certain deportation from the United States based on the British drug charges and Ono was separated from her daughter, who would have remained behind if she followed Lennon back to England. Lennon began drinking heavily and Ono buried herself in her work. The marriage had soured by 1973 and the two began living separate lives, Ono pursuing her career in New York and Lennon living in Los Angeles with personal assistant
May Pang.
In 1975, the couple reconciled. Their son,
Sean, was born on Lennon's 35th birthday,
October 9, 1975. After Sean's birth, the couple lived in relative seclusion at
the Dakota in New York. Lennon
retired from music to become a house-husband caring for their child, until shortly before his
murder in December 1980, which Yoko witnessed at close range. Yoko has stated that the couple were thinking about going out to dinner (after spending several hours in a recording studio), but were returning to their apartment instead, because John wanted to see Sean before he was put to bed. Following the murder, she went into complete seclusion for an extended period.