Life as a spouse and mother
Following Nobunaga's conquest of
Mino in
1567, in an effort to cement an alliance between Nobunaga and rival warlord
Azai Nagamasa, Nobunaga arranged for Oichi, then twenty years old, to marry Nagamasa. This was unusually late for a first-time marriage, fueling speculation that she may have been married earlier.
Oichi had four children with Nagamasa, a son, Manjumaru, and three daughters,
Cha-Cha, O-Hatsu and
O-go. But in
1570, Nobunaga attempted to conquer the Asakura clan, a traditional ally of the Azai. Nagamasa broke his alliance with Nobunaga and sided with the Asakura clan. A story relates that she sent her brother a sack of beans tied at both ends, ostensibly as a good-luck charm but in reality warning that he was about to be attacked from both front and rear by the Asakura and Azai clans. According to the story, Nobunaga got the hint and retreated just in time.
Fierce fighting broke out and continued for three years until the Asakura family and other anti-Oda forces were killed off. Oichi remained with her husband at
Odani Castle throughout, even after
Toyotomi Hideyoshi, a trusted vassal of Nobunaga at the time, began laying siege to the castle. Eventually Nagamasa was surrounded at Odani, but before the final attack on his castle commenced, Nobunaga called for the return of his sister. Nagamasa agreed and sent Oichi away with their three daughters. Nagamasa and his son, Manjumaru, remained walking into the fire and honorably committing
suicide after he admitted to Oichi how he loved her.
Oichi and her daughters remained in the Oda family's care for the next decade. After Nobunaga was assassinated In
1582, his sons and vassals broke into two major factions, led by two of Nobunaga's favorite generals,
Shibata Katsuie and Hideyoshi. Nobunaga's third son, Nobutaka, belonged to the former group, and arranged for his aunt Oichi to marry Katsuie in order to ensure his loyalty to the Oda clan. But in
1583, Katsuie was defeated by Hideyoshi in the
Battle of Shizugatake, forcing him to retreat to his home castle at Kita-no-shō. As Hideyoshi's army lay siege to the castle, Katsuie implored Oichi to leave the castle with her daughters and seek Hideyoshi's protection again, but this time Oichi refused, insisting on dying with her husband, although she did send her daughters away. They sat there when the castle was in flames.