Descended from a long-established Northumbrian family seated at
Howick Hall, Grey was the second but eldest surviving son of General Sir Charles Grey KB (1729–1807) and his wife, Elizabeth (1743/4–1822), daughter of George Grey of Southwick, co. Durham. He had four brothers and two sisters. Educated at
Eton and
Trinity College, Cambridge, he acquired at those schools a facility in Latin and in English composition and declamation that enabled him to become one of the foremost parliamentary orators of his generation. Grey was elected to Parliament at the age of 22 in
1786. He became a part of the Whig circle of
Charles James Fox, Richard Brinsley Sheridan, and the
Prince of Wales, and soon became one of the major leaders of the Whig party. Grey was noted for advocating Parliamentary reform and
Catholic emancipation. His affair with the
Duchess of Devonshire, herself an active political campaigner, did him little harm although it nearly caused her to be divorced by her husband.
In 1806 Grey, now Lord Howick due to his father's elevation to the peerage as
Earl Grey, became a part of the
Ministry of All the Talents (a coalition of
Foxite Whigs,
Grenvillites, and
Addingtonites) as
First Lord of the Admiralty. Following Fox's death later that year, Howick took over both as
Foreign Secretary and as leader of the Whigs.
The government fell from power the next year, and Howick went to the Lords the same year, succeeding his father as Earl Grey. He continued in opposition for the next 23 years.
In 1830, the Whigs finally returned to power, with Grey as Prime Minister. His Ministry was a notable one, seeing passage of the
Reform Act 1832, which finally saw the reform of the House of Commons, and the
abolition of slavery throughout the
British Empire in 1833. As the years had passed, however, Grey had become more conservative, and he was cautious about initiating more far-reaching reforms. In 1834 Grey retired from public life, leaving
Lord Melbourne as his successor.
Grey returned to Howick but kept a close eye on the policies of the new cabinet under Melbourne, whom he, and especially his family, regarded as a mere understudy until he began to act in ways of which they disapproved. Grey became more critical as the decade went on, being particularly inclined to see the hand of
Daniel O'Connell behind the scenes and blaming Melbourne for subservience to the radicals with whom he identified the Irish patriot. He made no allowances for Melbourne's need to keep the radicals on his side to preserve his shrinking majority in the Commons, and in particular he resented any slight on his own great achievement, the Reform Act, which he saw as a final solution of the question for the foreseeable future. He continually stressed its conservative nature. As he declared in his last great public speech, at the Grey Festival organized in his honour at
Edinburgh in September 1834, its purpose was to strengthen and preserve the established constitution, to make it more acceptable to the people at large, and especially the middle classes, who had been the principal beneficiaries of the Reform Act, and to establish the principle that future changes would be gradual, "according to the increased intelligence of the people, and the necessities of the times". It was the speech of a conservative statesman.
Grey spent his last years in contented, if sometimes fretful, retirement at Howick, with his books, his family, and his dogs. He became physically feeble in his last years and died quietly in his bed on 17 July 1845, forty-four years to the day since going to live at Howick. He was buried in the church there on the 26th in the presence of his family, close friends, and the labourers on his estate.
Earl Grey tea is named after Grey. He is commemorated by
Grey's Monument in the centre of
Newcastle upon Tyne, which consists of a
statue of Lord Grey standing atop a 41 m (135 ft) high
column. The monument lends its name to
Monument Metro station on the
Tyne and Wear Metro located directly underneath.
Grey Street in Newcastle upon Tyne is also indebted to Lord Grey for its name. Grey also gave his name to
Grey College, one of the constituent colleges of the
University of Durham.
Grey married Mary Elizabeth Ponsonby (1776–1861), only daughter of
William Ponsonby, 1st Baron Ponsonby of Imokilly in
1794. The marriage was a happy and fruitful one; between 1797 and 1819 the couple had eleven sons and four daughters.
Their children included:
* Louisa Elizabeth Grey (1797–1841) married
John Lambton, 1st Earl of Durham
*
Henry George Grey, 3rd Earl Grey (1802–1894), eldest son, who became a politician like his father
*
General Sir Charles Grey (1804–1870), father of
Albert Grey, 4th Earl Grey
* Admiral George Grey (1809–1891)
Mary was frequently pregnant and during his absences in London or elsewhere Grey had a series of affairs with other women. The first, most notorious, and most significant, which antedated his engagement to his future wife, was with
Georgiana Cavendish, Duchess of Devonshire, whom he met at Devonshire House, the centre of Whig society in London in the 1780s and 1790s, shortly after his arrival in the capital as a young recruit to the House of Commons. Impetuous and headstrong, Grey pursued Georgiana with persistence until she gave in to his attentions. She became pregnant by Grey in 1791, but she refused to leave her husband and live with him when the duke threatened that if she did so she would never see their children again. She went abroad with her sister, and on 20 February 1792 at
Aix-en-Provence she gave birth to a daughter, who was given the name Eliza Courtenay. After her return to England in September 1793 the child was taken to Fallodon and brought up by Grey's parents as if she was his sister. This affair was a significant step in the process by which he became a member of the Whig party, led by
Charles James Fox.
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