Marriage to James Madison
In 1794, after returning to Philadelphia, her friend
Aaron Burr, who was a frequent guest at the boarding house managed by Mary Payne, introduced her to
James Madison. On
September 15, 1794, Dolley Todd married James Madison, who was seventeen years older. The location of the wedding was a
Virginia plantation owned by the bride's brother-in-law
George Steptoe Washington, a nephew of the first president of the United States. The Madisons had no children but raised Dolley's son from her first marriage, John Payne Todd, whom they called Payne. Unfortunately, the child grew into a profligate young man addicted to gambling, a habit that resulted in his mother's eventual impoverishment.
During her husband's political life, Dolley Madison was noted as a gracious hostess, whose sassy, ebullient personality, love of feathered turbans, and passion for
snuff (
tobacco) seemed at odds with her Quaker upbringing. However, probably her most lasting achievement was her rescue of valuable treasures, including state papers and a
Gilbert Stuart painting of
President George Washington, from the
White House before it was burned by the
British army in
1814. She could not simply pull it off the wall; the frame was screwed onto the wall and she had a caretaker cut the painting out of the frame.
According to Margaret Truman's book, "First Ladies," Dolley Madison was enraged at how American soldiers fled rather than fought the oncoming British, and even slept with a sabre near her bedside should a British soldier show up in the middle of the night.
Dolley Madison remained a popular figure in Washington, D.C. long after her husband's presidency ended, and was the only private citizen (much less a woman) to be allowed to sit in on Congress, on the congressional floor, while it was in session.
Dolley died at the age of 81.