Along with her brother
Publius Clodius Pulcher, she changed her patrician name to Clodia, with a
plebeian connotation.
Clodia was married as a young girl to
Lucullus (divorced ca.
66 BC after friction between him and her brother Publius), then to
Quintus Caecilius Metellus Celer, her first cousin. The
marriage was not a happy one. Clodia engaged in several affairs with married men and
slaves, becoming at the same time a notorious
gambler and
drinker. Arguments with Metellus Celer were constant, often in public situations. When Metellus Celer died in strange circumstances in
59 BC, Clodia was suspected of
poisoning her husband.
As a
widow, Clodia became known as a merry one, taking several lovers, including possibly the poet
Catullus (see below). Clodia maintained several other lovers, including
Marcus Caelius Rufus, Catullus' friend. This particular affair would cause an immense scandal. After the relationship with Caelius was over in
56 BC, Clodia publicly accused him of attempted poisoning. The accusation led to a
murder charge and
trial. Caelius' defence
lawyer was Cicero, who took a harsh approach against her, recorded in his speech
Pro Caelio. Cicero had a personal interest in the case, as her brother
Publius Clodius was Cicero's most bitter political enemy. Among other things, Clodia was accused of being a
seducer and a drunkard in
Rome and in
Baiae, as well as committing
incest with her brother Publius. Cicero insinuated that he "would [attack Caelius' accusers] still more vigorously, if I had not a quarrel with that woman's [Clodia's] husband - brother, I meant to say; I am always making this mistake. At present I will proceed with moderation... for I have never thought it my duty to engage in quarrels with any woman, especially with one whom all men have always considered everybody's friend rather than any one's enemy." He declared her a disgrace to her family and nicknamed Clodia the
Medea of the
Palatine. (Cicero's marriage to
Terentia suffered from Terentia's persistent suspicions that Cicero was conducting an illicit affair with Clodia.)
After the trial of Caelius, in which Caelius was found not guilty, little or possibly nothing is heard of Clodia, and the date of her death is unknown. There is some difficulty in identifying Roman women due to the lack of female personal names. Either this Clodia or a sister was still alive in 44 BC.